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BETWEEN SUSPICION AND REALITY: A FAMILY’S JOURNEY THROUGH LOSS AND HEALING.

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Life sometimes places us in situations where suspicion becomes the lens through which we view our surroundings, compelling us to rely on uncertainty when making critical decisions. Instead of confronting the reality of the problem and seeking practical solutions, people often find themselves caught between difficult choices, unable to move forward clearly. Such circumstances frequently lead to costly and avoidable errors. Yet, at times, they provide emotional relief to those involved, offering a temporary sense of comfort. Whether this relief truly resolves the underlying issue remains uncertain. Consider this example: A family experienced an alarming series of deaths—ten members passing away within ten months, each about a month apart. The pattern was hard to accept, especially since all but one died following a brief illness. This raised deep suspicions that something beyond ordinary causes was at play. In search of answers, the family turned to a medium reputed to communicate wit...

Death Of A Loved One

Death is the ultimate price which every human must pay. Most of the time, it comes unannounced. At other times, it appears to give signs of it's arrival. Yet, no mortal has been able to accurately predict the actual time it would come to take it's victim. When death strikes in unfamiliar circumstances, the bereaved are  often left in bewilderment; they appear  powerless because they cannot change the situation, yet they question God and the gods for answers to the inevitability of death. If  you like, cry till eternity; death, which is like an autocratic government decides when to strike and who to strike on. 'Please, take heart', 'accept my condolences', ' may the soul of the departed rest in peace', etc, are some expressions to comfort the bereaved. If you've lost a dear one, pick any of the above sympathy expressions and stop crying, otherwise, you will be doing yourself more harm than the dead. 

REVITALIZING NIGERIA’S ECONOMY: THE URGENT NEED TO RESTORE INDUSTRIAL AND REFINING CAPACITY

Nigeria’s primary source of revenue is oil, supplemented by sectors such as agriculture, tourism, entertainment, hospitality, commerce, and industry. Despite its wealth in crude oil, the country exports this resource in its raw form and imports refined petroleum products like petrol, diesel, kerosene, lubricating oils, asphalt, and feedstock. This paradox exists because Nigeria’s refineries, which should process crude oil domestically, remain largely nonfunctional despite numerous turnaround maintenance efforts by successive governments. The failure of these refineries has contributed significantly to the persistent decline in Nigeria’s Gross Domestic Product (GDP) over the years. Beyond oil, Nigeria has unfortunately neglected other vital revenue-generating industries. The once-thriving textile sector, which flourished in the 1980s and mid-1990s, has all but disappeared. States like Zamfara and Delta hosted major textile mills such as ZAMTEXT in Gusau and ASABA TEXTILE MILL in Asaba, ...

BRIDGING THE NORTH-SOUTH DIVIDE: THE CASE FOR RANCHING TO RESOLVE AGRICULTURAL CONFLICTS IN NIGERIA

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The growing divide between Northern and Southern Nigeria is fueled by escalating tensions rooted in agricultural conflicts involving individuals and groups across the country. This dangerous trend must be halted to preserve the fragile peace that has existed among Nigeria’s diverse ethnic groups since independence in 1960. Cattle rearing, a significant aspect of animal husbandry, is predominantly practiced by peasant farmers and businesspeople in Northern Nigeria. While cattle rearing occurs in other regions, the scale of the trade is far greater in the North. The Fulani nomads, primarily among the Hausa, dominate this sector, moving their herds across the country in search of quality grazing land. Unfortunately, as these animals roam, they often stray into farmlands, consuming and destroying crops. This destruction has frequently sparked violent clashes between farmers and herdsmen, sometimes resulting in fatalities among those directly or indirectly involved. Some have proposed desig...

NAVIGATING FAMILY PRESSURES AMID SUCCESS: CHALLENGES AND LESSONS

Success undeniably stems from hard work. However, when a family member achieves notable success in their career, they often face unique and intense pressures from relatives. How this individual manages such pressures can either strengthen or weaken their position within the family. In many African families, whether nuclear or extended, when one member attains greater wealth than others, there is a common expectation that this person will provide material and financial support to the rest. This expectation persists regardless of whether the family head—often the father—is still alive. The successful individual frequently assumes the role of family provider, even while managing their own household responsibilities. In families grounded in love and trust, this dynamic tends to function smoothly. The successful member’s support encourages others to strive for their own success, fostering motivation rather than dependence. This cycle helps break the chains of reliance on the prosperous indi...

Flooding In Ogun State, Nigeria

I recorded these events     at the Toll gate, Ota in Ogun State today, June 22, 2021. The area  is presently flooded due to the heavy downpour . Traders in the area are running after their wares, which the flood swept away. It's a black  Tuesday evening for  the traders! Road rehabilitation is currently going on around the area. One can only hope that the rehabilitation work will be an opportunity to address the  issue of perennial flooding there.

THE POISON OF JEALOUSY: RECOGNIZING AND PROTECTING YOURSELF FROM ITS HARM

Jealousy, often rooted in envy of another’s possessions or success, is one of the most common causes of hatred. Many victims of jealousy are caught off guard, unknowingly falling into a vicious cycle of intense animosity. They may even mistakenly believe that their so-called enemies—often strangers to them—are acting in their favour, unaware that they are being trapped in harmful schemes. A defining trait of jealous individuals is their perpetual dissatisfaction with their own possessions, no matter how abundant they may be. They covet what others have achieved without making the necessary effort to attain similar success themselves. Driven by this insatiable desire, they may go to great lengths—even resorting to unethical or harmful actions—to dispossess their targets and satisfy their envy. Jealousy is often easy to detect, as those who harbor it tend to reveal their feelings, sometimes unintentionally. They are rarely pleased by the accomplishments or actions of their perceived ri...