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WHY PEOPLE DRINK ALCOHOL: HABIT AND GENETICS

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Artist's impression of an alcoholi c   People consume alcohol for a variety of reasons. Some drink to celebrate, to socialize, or simply to relax their bodies, while others claim they drink to supplement their nutritional needs. In itself, alcohol is not inherently harmful when taken in moderation. The real danger lies in its misuse. This article explores why some individuals drink excessively and end up intoxicated. As the title suggests, we will examine this issue from two main perspectives: habit and genetics. From these angles, two important questions arise: 1. Do people develop the habit of drinking and find it difficult to stop over time? (Habitual) 2. Do people drink because they observe family members, friends, or acquaintances doing so? (Genetic) It is clear that social influence plays a significant role. Many individuals begin drinking because of the company they keep. Over time, they become deeply engrossed in the habit, making it difficult to quit—after all,...

THE CONSEQUENCES OF BROKEN PROMISES: A TALE OF LOVE, BETRAYAL, AND REDEMPTION

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Some broken hearts can never mend. Identify such hearts and don't monkey with them. For some trivial reasons, certain men break their lover’s heart, believing they will escape any consequences. Some do this intentionally, while others hide behind excuses, claiming it was unintentional. This story illustrates the gravity of such actions. Many years ago, a 28-year-old man named Femi proposed to a 25-year-old woman named Funmilayo, who accepted. During their first year of courtship, they eagerly planned their future as husband and wife. Femi’s parents, especially his mother, were excitedly awaiting the day their son would marry the woman they had already embraced as their daughter-in-law. Their courtship lasted two years, but no wedding took place. Early in the third year, Femi suddenly told Funmilayo he would not marry her as promised. He claimed he had found another woman who had captured his heart in a way he couldn’t explain, and just like that, they parted ways. A few months l...

POPE: A PREMONITION IGNORED AND QUESTIONS UNANSWERED

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Picture:  Junior Pope . On Wednesday April 10, 2024, news  broke on several social media outlets especially Facebook and Instagram about the death of a Nigerian movie star John Paul Obumneme Odonwodo aka Junior Pope. Few hours later,  news broke again that he did not die. 'He's breathing!' chorused several social media outlets. Few days later, his death was confirmed. According to sources, Jnr Pope was in a speed boat on his way back from a movie shoot in Asaba, Delta State, Nigeria, when the boat collided with another boat in Anam river in Anambra State and four of the occupants including Jnr Pope drowned and died! Several hours after the accident, divers recovered all the bodies of the victims of the boat mishap. One spectacular thing about the body of late Jnr Pope was that his stomach was not bloated as expected of someone who drowned in the sea! His shirt was torn and he bled in both nose and mouth - an indication that there was an internal injury and that he pr...

THE PURPOSE OF SEXUAL INTERCOURSE AND THE IMPORTANCE OF PRESERVING HUMAN DIGNITY

The primary purpose of sexual intercourse among humans and animals is procreation. For humans who wish to have children biologically, sexual intercourse is essential. Similarly, animals engage in it to reproduce their offspring. A secondary purpose, particularly among humans, is for pleasure or to relieve sexual tension. Whether animals also engage in sexual activity to reduce tension remains a subject of debate. In humans, sexual intercourse intended for procreation must occur during specific times—namely, when a woman is ovulating—to achieve conception. In animals, the female must be in heat to conceive. Instinctively, males recognize when females are in heat, and mating occurs during this period. A key difference between animals and humans in copulation is that animals can mate anywhere and at any time, provided the female is in heat. Humans, on the other hand, generally preserve their dignity by engaging in sexual activity at chosen times and in private settings. Additionally, ...

BETWEEN SUSPICION AND REALITY: A FAMILY’S JOURNEY THROUGH LOSS AND HEALING.

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Life sometimes places us in situations where suspicion becomes the lens through which we view our surroundings, compelling us to rely on uncertainty when making critical decisions. Instead of confronting the reality of the problem and seeking practical solutions, people often find themselves caught between difficult choices, unable to move forward clearly. Such circumstances frequently lead to costly and avoidable errors. Yet, at times, they provide emotional relief to those involved, offering a temporary sense of comfort. Whether this relief truly resolves the underlying issue remains uncertain. Consider this example: A family experienced an alarming series of deaths—ten members passing away within ten months, each about a month apart. The pattern was hard to accept, especially since all but one died following a brief illness. This raised deep suspicions that something beyond ordinary causes was at play. In search of answers, the family turned to a medium reputed to communicate wit...

Death Of A Loved One

Death is the ultimate price which every human must pay. Most of the time, it comes unannounced. At other times, it appears to give signs of it's arrival. Yet, no mortal has been able to accurately predict the actual time it would come to take it's victim. When death strikes in unfamiliar circumstances, the bereaved are  often left in bewilderment; they appear  powerless because they cannot change the situation, yet they question God and the gods for answers to the inevitability of death. If  you like, cry till eternity; death, which is like an autocratic government decides when to strike and who to strike on. 'Please, take heart', 'accept my condolences', ' may the soul of the departed rest in peace', etc, are some expressions to comfort the bereaved. If you've lost a dear one, pick any of the above sympathy expressions and stop crying, otherwise, you will be doing yourself more harm than the dead. 

WHEN DOES LIFE TRULY BEGIN? A REFLECTION ON HUMAN EXISTENCE

Ordinarily, life for humans begins at conception; similarly, for animals, life also starts at conception. In contrast, for inorganic matter, life begins at the moment of creation. In this discussion, however, our focus will be on human life. To explore this topic clearly, let us first consider the meaning of the word "life." According to Google, life is defined as "the condition that distinguishes animals and plants from inorganic matter, including the capacity for growth, reproduction, functional activity, and continual change preceding death." If we accept this definition, why then do we often argue that life begins at a specific age different from the day a person is born? To deepen this perspective, let us examine the purpose of an individual’s existence. Does the Creator send humans into the world without a purpose? Or do humans come into the world randomly, without any plan? The answer is likely no. We believe that every living person has a purpose for existin...