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COMPANIONSHIP AND PURPOSE: MEN, WOMEN, AND THE MEANING Of TOGETHERNESS

Man and woman share a common human dignity. In many traditions, both are seen as created with the capacity to know, serve, and contribute to something greater than themselves. At the same time, men and women often bring different strengths to family and community life, including in areas like caregiving, collaboration, and the practical demands of building a home. In everyday life, many people find partnership meaningful. A woman may choose a man as her husband, and a man may choose a woman as his wife, each complementing the other through companionship, support, and shared responsibility. Some people also choose to live independently for a season or permanently; others form families in diverse ways. What matters most is mutual respect, honesty about needs and limits, and a commitment to the wellbeing of any children involved. Financial independence can be a source of confidence and stability for women and men alike. It does not preclude healthy partnership; rather, it can strengthen...

Bringing Up The Girl Child

The characteristics of the  girl are different from those of the boy child in many ways. Apart from the biological and physical attributes, there are other attributes of the female child which requires her to be given special attention as she grows up. In this piece, we shall analyze those traits and suggest how they should be utilized for the optimal development of the girl child.   Relating with the Opposite Sex. The girl child in her usual way is the shy type. She consciously or unconsciously chooses her play mate(s) be it her fellow girls or  boys of her age that she can easily relate with. Parents should watch their girl child as she goes through this developmental stage, which is usually around the age range of eight and ten years.   Education .  During her formative years in school,  special attention should be given to her to ensure that she remains focused on her intended career because the dangerous and wrong notion that the female child is ofte...

ROAD AND VEHICLE SAFETY IN NIGERIA: WHICH SHOULD COME FIRST?

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Picture Credit: Oriental Times  When traveling across Nigeria’s major highways, one cannot help but notice government officials stopping vehicles to check their roadworthiness. Yet, a pressing question arises: which should be prioritized—safe roads or safe vehicles? Sadly, both remain in deplorable condition. Vehicle Safety Ideally, vehicles should be in proper working condition before being allowed on the road, whether for private or commercial use. Unfortunately, this is rarely the case. Many passengers have been stranded because vehicles lacked spare tyres, or carried ones that were unusable. Road Safety Officers and Vehicle Inspection Officers, tasked with enforcing these standards, often neglect their duty—choosing instead to collect bribes and allow unsafe vehicles to continue operating.   Equally troubling is the issue of missing or fake vehicle documents. Officials routinely stop cars to check particulars, yet passengers frequently witness them accep...

ARE POLITICAL SINS EVER FORGIVEN?

In many religions and other spheres of human endeavor, sins are believed to be forgivable through intermediaries of God—priests, prophets, or spiritual leaders. The process of forgiveness is rooted in faith, belief, and sometimes conjecture. Within religious circles, sin is clearly defined as “an immoral act considered a transgression against divine law.” In the secular world, forgiveness takes on a different meaning. Some argue that humans often lack the capacity to forgive certain betrayals or dishonest acts. Instead of pardon, retaliation becomes the instinctive response to wrongdoing. Politics mirrors this unforgiving nature. Whether in democratic systems or military regimes, in advanced nations or developing states, the concept of political sin emerges. A political sin is any offence—committed knowingly or unknowingly—against a party, its members, or its power structures. Unlike religious sins, these are rarely, if ever, pardoned. The nature of politicians is often described as ...

MARRIAGE: A UNION BEYOND MERE ENJOYMENT

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It is often said that marriage is to be enjoyed, not endured. This sentiment, however, is frequently echoed by young women who appear unaware of the deeper purpose of marital commitment. Many who hold this view tend to abandon their unions at the first sign of conflict, treating marriage as something temporary rather than a lifelong covenant.   A major factor behind this unfortunate trend is immaturity. Had these individuals attained a reasonable level of emotional and mental maturity before saying “I do”, they might have been better prepared for the responsibilities, sacrifices, and boundaries that sustain a marriage. Without such grounding, they quickly fall into pitfalls that tear their relationships apart.   In this discussion, we will examine why some women enter marriage only to exit within a short time, almost as though it were a casual game. In later articles, we shall turn our attention to the shortcomings of men and explore ways to address those deficiencie...

ÃFIÃ ÓGBÉ MÁÍ AND NOT ÁFIÁ OGBOMÃ

This video explains the true name, origin and meaning of the market situated at Ogbenmudein, Agbor Obi in Ika South Local Government Area of Delta State, Nigeria.  Before now, there has been misconceptions about the existence of that popular market, which draws sellers and buyers not only from within the community, but also from the neighbouring communities. The major misconception is centered around the name of the market. Some say ÁFIÃ OGBOMÃ is the real name of the market because it derives the name from the fact that witches and wizards used to meet where the market is presently located, hence it is called by the name ÃFIÃ OGBOMÃ. However, after careful and diligent enquiry, we have discovered that the real name of the market is ÃFUÃ OGBÈ MÃI. The video here explains it all

WHEN DOES LIFE TRULY BEGIN? A REFLECTION ON HUMAN EXISTENCE

Ordinarily, life for humans begins at conception; similarly, for animals, life also starts at conception. In contrast, for inorganic matter, life begins at the moment of creation. In this discussion, however, our focus will be on human life. To explore this topic clearly, let us first consider the meaning of the word "life." According to Google, life is defined as "the condition that distinguishes animals and plants from inorganic matter, including the capacity for growth, reproduction, functional activity, and continual change preceding death." If we accept this definition, why then do we often argue that life begins at a specific age different from the day a person is born? To deepen this perspective, let us examine the purpose of an individual’s existence. Does the Creator send humans into the world without a purpose? Or do humans come into the world randomly, without any plan? The answer is likely no. We believe that every living person has a purpose for existin...