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CULTURAL FESTIVALS AS BRIDGES: COUNTERING ETHNIC DIVISION IN LAGOS

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Picture: protesters in Lagos, Nigeria . Between August 1 and 10, 2024, during the #ENDBADGOVERNANCE and Hunger Protests in Nigeria, an online campaign emerged in Lagos State calling for Igbos to vacate the city. The campaign, tagged #IgbosMustGo, was driven by unidentified individuals who announced that their efforts would be “intensified” between August 20 and 30, 2024. The use of the word intensified suggests that the campaign had been quietly ongoing but was now being openly promoted. Its message was clear: Igbos from the Eastern region residing in Lagos should leave the state. Governor Babajide Sanwo-Olu strongly condemned the campaign, describing it as reckless and senseless. He urged law enforcement agencies to identify and prosecute those behind it. At the time of writing, however, there has been no official statement confirming whether the perpetrators have been apprehended. Yet, the focus here is not on arrests or prosecutions, but on how diverse groups within a geopolitical ...

THE FRAGILE NATURE OF EMOTION: UNDERSTANDING and ADDRESSING EMOTIONAL PAIN

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  Emotion is the inner state of a person’s feelings, often visible through their outward expressions. It functions much like neurons in the human body, connecting various veins and assigning each a specific role. These veins, though delicate, must work in harmony to regulate a person’s emotions; if they fail, the entire emotional system risks collapse, leading to an emotional breakdown. Humans can sense the emotions of others without physically touching them. Yet, unlike physical injuries that can be treated with or without professional help, emotional wounds are the most vulnerable and hardest to heal. Emotional distress causes profound pain in the heart, which quickly spreads to other parts of the body, especially the face. When emotional pain manifests on the face, it becomes unmistakably clear—the person’s negative thoughts and feelings are no longer contained, and their mood visibly shifts, making their suffering evident. One clear indicator of emotional distress is a chan...

THE CONSEQUENCES OF BROKEN PROMISES: A TALE OF LOVE, BETRAYAL, AND REDEMPTION

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Some broken hearts can never mend. Identify such hearts and don't monkey with them. For some trivial reasons, certain men break their lover’s heart, believing they will escape any consequences. Some do this intentionally, while others hide behind excuses, claiming it was unintentional. This story illustrates the gravity of such actions. Many years ago, a 28-year-old man named Femi proposed to a 25-year-old woman named Funmilayo, who accepted. During their first year of courtship, they eagerly planned their future as husband and wife. Femi’s parents, especially his mother, were excitedly awaiting the day their son would marry the woman they had already embraced as their daughter-in-law. Their courtship lasted two years, but no wedding took place. Early in the third year, Femi suddenly told Funmilayo he would not marry her as promised. He claimed he had found another woman who had captured his heart in a way he couldn’t explain, and just like that, they parted ways. A few months l...

POPE: A PREMONITION IGNORED AND QUESTIONS UNANSWERED

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Picture:  Junior Pope . On Wednesday April 10, 2024, news  broke on several social media outlets especially Facebook and Instagram about the death of a Nigerian movie star John Paul Obumneme Odonwodo aka Junior Pope. Few hours later,  news broke again that he did not die. 'He's breathing!' chorused several social media outlets. Few days later, his death was confirmed. According to sources, Jnr Pope was in a speed boat on his way back from a movie shoot in Asaba, Delta State, Nigeria, when the boat collided with another boat in Anam river in Anambra State and four of the occupants including Jnr Pope drowned and died! Several hours after the accident, divers recovered all the bodies of the victims of the boat mishap. One spectacular thing about the body of late Jnr Pope was that his stomach was not bloated as expected of someone who drowned in the sea! His shirt was torn and he bled in both nose and mouth - an indication that there was an internal injury and that he pr...

THE ROLE OF EDUCATION AND CHARACTER IN BUILDING A SUCCESSFUL HOME: INSIGHTS FROM PUBLIC OPINION

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It is often said that the foundation of a successful home depends more on the woman than the man, as she is likened to the neck that directs the head. While a man may be financially strong, physically capable, and ready to defend his household, it is the woman—who may seem gentle or delicate—who possesses subtle yet powerful qualities that can either nurture or undermine a home. This perspective prompts important questions: What essential qualities should a woman have to effectively manage a household? And should her level of education be a decisive factor in this role? To explore these questions, we gathered public opinions on the topic: “Educated Wife vs. Uneducated Wife: Which Makes a Better Home?” 60% of respondents believed that women with little or no formal education often create better homes than highly educated women. 30% disagreed, asserting that education enhances a woman’s ability to manage her household.10% remained neutral. Supporters of the uneducated wife ar...

ENHANCING CORPORATE SOCIAL RESPONSIBILITY FOR SUSTAINABLE COMMUNITY DEVELOPMENT

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Organizations and individuals establish businesses in environments they believe will foster growth, sustainability, and progress. While operating in these locations, these entities have the opportunity to contribute positively to the social and economic well-being of the surrounding communities. This practice is known as Corporate Social Responsibility (CSR), also referred to as Corporate Impact. In several African countries, particularly Nigeria, the contributions of many organizations to the economic and social development of their host communities often fall short of local expectations. This article highlights some critical areas that have been largely neglected, including road maintenance, rural and urban electrification, environmental sanitation, and scholarships for indigent students. Road Maintenance : Feeder roads, which organizations frequently use to transport raw materials and finished goods, often suffer from poor maintenance. Although it is not the direct responsibility...

BETWEEN GOD AND THE GODS: A QUESTION OF FAITH

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